This isn't really a point but I have to ask, wheres the proof that there is an afterlife?

I believe, based on the evidence that when a person dies, their body shuts down and starts to decompose, and just as an after-thought, think to yourself, is that really such a bad thing? and Do I really believe that there is (based on the evidence), or do I just really really want there to be one.

From an atheists standpoint, Christians are the ones who are 'jerkish'. Jerkish in the sense that they're almost always unaccepting of an opposing view. And of course the same can be said of atheists. Because atheists have decided to give up their faith in that particular belief, whatever it was. But almost always for good reason, or at least some reason, which can again, be said of Christians and Christianity. It usually is picked up for certain reasons. So both both sides are guilty of being 'jerkish' in my opinion. The culprit is stubbornness. Let's be more accepting and more open and willing to converse on these kinds of things.