This confuses me. I agree with you about the abortion, it is her body, her right, he consented to sxx with her but should not have to pay child support if she got pregnant on purpose, that is the ONLY reason he should not have to pay and she must take full responsibility but if he is a great guy and wants to help fine but maybe he can help in other ways, like buying the kid/kids stuff when they want it.

Ok this is moronic clutches 0324 and your English is so bad, I found that very difficult to read. I guess you are a man and a very bitter one.

Anyway I am an unwed single mother who got pregnant and am in my thirties, my ex is very bitter man and a lazy useless father but the pregnancy was not planned so I did not file for child support because he would become even nastier than he already is and his family are even worse, if he was a nice guy he would help anyway, I shouldn't need to FORCE him. A decent man would want to help the mother of his child but a nasty selfish me me me man won't want to, he'd rather spend it on himself and his latest g/friend. Now if a woman gets pregnant on purpose and that means working out her best days to get pregnant and sleeping with him, no I do not think it is his choice for an abortion..NO, it is her body not his, no no no, however, she needs to take full responsibility financially as got pregnant on purpose and knew he was not the kind of guy who could turn down sxx. If you are married, madly in love and are trying for kids and he then does a runner, hell yes make him pay child support and some of you men need to Calm down ok, just calm down and look at all the facts before ranting and raving about how nasty the mother of your child is (who by the way 9 out of 10 times does an amazing job that you wouldn't begin to know how to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!)