I'll paste the e-mail I received from a girl I barely knew that I had a one night stand with. This should speak for itself.

"You were right. I was lying. I did get pregnant on purpose. I wanted a child so badly. I hated being alone. I hated not having any friends. You were never going to be my friend. No one was. I wanted someone to love me. To have someone who would never leave me. I didn't take any birth control. I just planned sex according to my ovulation, so every other day. I don't care if your around or not, I guess all in all you served your purpose by giving me a child that will always love me. Becuz I know that if I didn't have a child on purpose that I would always be alone and that would lead me to a dark place that I didn't want to go, I didn't want to commit suicide. Death is lonely so I didn't want to feel that either. I wanted to experience happiness for once in my life. I don't know why I chose you. I guess oppurtunity just striked. I found out I was ovulating the 2nd of Aug thru Aug 7th. I had sex w/ you Aug 5th.

Your right I am lying and vindictive but only to get what I want and that is to never be alone, For someone to always love me. I'm only bitter and mean becuz my life is always dark and lonely. I envy you becuz you have friends. I envy you becuz you probably had more of a normal life than I would ever had. I envy you.

I guess deep down I want you to hate me, I want you to be mean to me. That's all I'm use to. I'm not use to others being nice to me. I'm not use to others giving me compliments.

But I sincerely wasn't going after you for child support on purpose. In order for me to get assitance from the state for childcare. I need to go after you for child support."

For the record I am unemployed, and within 26 days of court establishing child support I have received a bill in the mail for $241 that I am legally obligated to pay this woman. Let me serve as a huge warning to men everywhere, it doesn't matter if she says she's on birth control, if you two are in a relationship, if you even want a child, if you have a job or money, or if you were downright lied to. The court doesn't give a FUCK about you. The court's only concern is to establish a living wallet to support children so that the government doesn't have to. Among this e-mail I have almost a hundred other e-mails saved. In one e-mail she even admitted to being beaten by her alcoholic mother in her home, said she would do the same to the child and likely kill the child and then herself. I asked the court to review these and received a stern reply from the judge of, "None of this is of the court's concern."

I have text messages from her admitting that she was getting high off prescription anti-anxiety pills while watching the child, and much, much more. Guess what? Nobody cares! I've told the court, my friends, and family. The system is flawed gentlemen - horribly flawed. Don't listen to women who tell you any different. The same woman I've been writing about wrote an entire article online that's almost identical to what I've seen from other women. It goes into detail about how I'm a 'deadbeat' and a 'real loser'. What a joke.

I have enough stories to write a novel, but time is short. I'm running on three and a half hours of sleep from applying for jobs all day and studying for my college exams. I just wanted to say I absolutely agree that men should have a right in this regard and I hope my situation clearly depicts just how ridiculous our current system is.