Christianity just like every other thing in the world looks different on paper. Its about having a relationship with Jesus. About love, just like you were loved. Eye for eye makes the whole world blind. Its about love.

The purpose of intercourse is to create life. Just like everything else in life, we've corrupted it into a luxury and no longer something sacred that should be used for more and never just alone, pleasure. Once you put it in without a condom or birth control and you ejaculate you made the decision and approved the life you created, everything is a choice. You may not believe that in that first week its living but when a woman tries to get pregnant but can't physical she still takes those first weeks into consideration so if she feels a difference, a missed period it gives her hope, why? Cause even though its only those weeks she still created and had life in her or else all these early miscarriages wouldn't matter to anyone but it does cause believe it or not a mother understands that no matter what time she has something in her that she didn't have before and when it dies its something that was part of her, aka life.

Virginity is not determined by someone kissing you, not considered on squeezing a girls boobs. Its about getting it, his genitals in hers. That's something that can't be done easily, it means something and the blood broken shows that. You say would u mind if your wife gave oral sex to a friend "cause its not real sex" aha I wouldn't want her to kiss anyone else and that isn't sex so obviously I would mind if it was sex or not. Its passionite which is meant for me.