Your's absolutely is the same. You shouldn't have married someone who you couldn't your heart to! You let her believe you were into her when really you've always wanted someone else! I almost feel it's better to truly love someone, fall out of love, and end the marriage with integrity.

I always believed in marriage. I believe in the vows. But, what if you get married young, become ambitious, and realize your partner just wants to stay home and have babies and not support you? OR, what if you marry someone who has a lot of damage and they are hurting you, but you meet someone who makes you feel like you can accomplish your goals and be the happy person you are? I do NOT believe in affairs. However, it's our responsibility to be happy and live the life you've always wanted, right? Do you stay with someone who drags you down just because you are married? It's up for debate!