Agreed, but if you get spanked with a belt isn't abuse , getting spanked with the belt is a stronger way to show discipline , your hand wont work all the time , and sometimes just pulling out the belt will make them stop.
But one of the best ways to punish someone , is a good butt whoopin.
Yes, because 1 getting hit helps you be stronger and grow up and 2 it makes you listen , it's not ABUSE it's getting spanked.