This would be a very hard decision to make, but you would really have to put yourself in her shoes. Would you want to honor her by respecting her wishes? It's not an easy decision to pull the plug on a love one, however, if I were you, I would have to do it because that is what she asked me to do for her. I hope this helps.
Eric Clapton regarding Stevie Ray Vaughan's talent:
"I was in my car when I first heard him and I remember thinking "I have to find out before the day is over who that guitar player is". And that doesn't happen to me very often that I get that way about listening to music. I mean I stopped the car, pulled over, listened and thought I've got to find out before the end of the day, not sooner or later, but I have to know now who that is. I remember being fascinated by the fact he never seemed lost in any way. He never took a breather or paused to think where he was going to go next, it just flowed out of him. And that doesn't come with virtuosity or practice, it's not a question of doing it over and over again; he just seemed like an open channel."