It's hard to convey true empathy when your on the outside looking in, regardless of what a sympathetic or kind person you may be. To truly speak like one who has felt it's burdens, you must experience them yourself. Even with that though, some accounts of sufferings vary despite the fact that the people may experience the same thing at the same time. People just have different outlooks, or intakes, on things and so no one can truly replicate the suffering you, yourself, have felt because no one is the exact same as you in life experiences or point of views or even strengths and weaknesses.

In general though, experience of the evil makes you appreciate it in a whole new light.

"To experience the true beauty of suffering you have to live its grim reality"hmm...thats something to ponder,but doesn,t being beautiful depend on what you percieve as beautiful?some people in the world for example feel you need make up,designer clothes,shoes,to fit in a certain social class aswell how you look to others.i know that this can make one emotionally burden about there appearences,having others putting you down and making you feel worthless,its who you are that really makes all the difference.what makes us individual like our eyes,nose,ears,hair,the way we dress,the way we

carry ourselves aswell as our talents are what make us beautiful and

unique indiviuals, not to mention the people we are in side.how kind we are, how patient we are and how we spend and share our lives with others.these qualities are unique and special no matter what others say or pecieve as beautiful, its only there opinion.the only non beauty in the world is the lack of these qualities which truly makes an individual suffer.