I want to add to this argument by bringing up something disturbing I read in th paper today. Here is an example where your "moral" religious upbringing killed a young girl. So, they will tell you that homosexuals are unfit parents...meanwhile, these, religious...I'll say it...morons...decided to prevent their daughter from getting medical assistance for diabetes and decided to use praying instead. Now she is dead. I guess it was her time...god must have wanted her. Ok...I may be a bit out of line to blame this on religion when this is more an issue of how bad our educational system. I think (and hope) that an educated person...even a religious one, would at least use they're prayers WITH modern medicine, but the point is...there are tons of horrible things that can happen to children from all kinds of parents. Especially from those who will point their fingers at one group shouting how immoral they are and then turn around and do something even worse. Ill tell you this much, if that 11 year old was adopted by homosexuals, she may be gay (which is most likely not true...I am being sarcastic) but she would be alive!
While I agree that this country has an unhealthy obsession with perfection. And that women suffer the brunt of this. And so for what I think you meant by creating this debate, I am in complete agreement with you. The media is a disease in this country that goes well beyond the scope of what we all should look like.
But for those who have taken this out of context:
The bottom line is...being obese IS unhealthy. And to promote obesity would be counter productive toward a healthier society. People who use drugs or smoke cigerettes are mocked and used as examples of an unhealthy way to live your life. Why should this be any different for those who are overweight? Now, i should follow that up by saying that I think that any kind of mocking is also counterproductive. The solution to obesity is for people to be more knowledgable about what they eat and to stop factory farming, stop the production of corn syrup, and lower the cost of more natural and organic foods...which would happen if everybody would start buying them instead of the crap you get at the store!
you wrong about this line:
"After all in order to prove a theory without any doubt one must also provide proof that disproves all other theories."
That is not how science works at all. In fact, you couldn't be making a more wrong statement by saying that. Science works with facts and creates theories based on those facts. They don't waste their time trying to disprove everything. Science only proves things. In the case of Is there a god?, it would be science's job to prove if he exists. Not prove that he doesn't, that makes no logical sense! How can you ever disprove that something exists when you don't have access to the entire universe? I mean if I told you that unicorns or fairies existed...how could you possibly disprove that? You couldn't!
I do, however, accept your point about people saying that "God does not exist" without adding theory to it. It is true, that one could never definately say that as much as one who says "god does exist" can.
I would also recommend the following books:
-"Post Office" by Charles Bulkowshi
-"On the Road" by Jack Kerouac
-ANYTHING by Hunter S Thompson...though starting with "Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas" is a great start. (he has such an amazing way of describing things in the most off the wall, obsurd ways while, at the same time, allowing the reader to still know EXACTLY what he means)
Debating is not only important....it is imperative. If society is to advance past the days when disputes were (and still are) settled by war or violence, debating and diplomacy must become the norm. Debating is not only a way to understand your opponents viewpoints, but it also helps in shaping your own understanding of the world around, bettering your ability to comprehend and use the information you receive, and a way to exercise the strongest muscle in your body--your brain. And it is a way to learn how everything can be questioned.
I really like Kurt Vonnegut...so I would recommend "Breakfast of Champions", "Slaughterhouse 5" or "Dead Eye Dick". All very beautiful, yet off the wall. "Breakfast of Champions" is a particularly interesting one because Vonnegut was suicidal as he was writing it and as he wrote the book he was able to convince himself to not kill himself by writing himself in as a character.
Hey PVT,
though we are enemies on the site (haha) I completely agree with you on this one!
Even though I find creationism ludicrous and I shudder to think that children in this country are actually being seriously subject to this, I have no problem with it being taught as a non-science class, in fact I encourage all fields of thought be taught to promote understanding and diplomacy. But Like PVT says, this way of thinking is not scientifically proven, in fact in many ways scientifically wrong. Thus, I wouldn't approve of it as a substitute to a more legitimate curriculum.
Tell that to the 9 students who entered a High School in 1957 in Little Rock, Arkanas that didn't allow blacks. Just because it is only a few people protesting does not make it meaningless.
They are asking for a lousy 2 hours, 2 times a week in the hopes that we can respect their beliefs (Since Jan. 28, the Quadrangle Recreational Athletic Center has been open only to women from 8 a.m. to 10 a.m. on Tuesdays and Thursdays, and from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m. on Mondays.) I think it is a perfectly reasonable request. And the article also says that it is open to all other women as well. Like, we don't have other instituions in our socitey that is gender controlled. (Men's Clubs, Women only Gyms, Bathrooms, Some Golf Courses, etc.)
This is another example of how little we as a society are accepting of different cultures while at the same time say "Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore. Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me: I lift my lamp beside the golden door. This is written on the Statue of Liberty. Maybe they should add to it..."so long as you prescribe to our beliefs"
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I can't make my rubuttal without sounding offensive, so I apoligize ahead of time, but your statement "Homosexuality is wrong" is about as ignorant (by saying ignorant I mean mis-informed, not stupid...i want that to be clear) as they can come. You are seriously trying to compare the morality of homosexuality with rape?
Furthemore, You really need to re-access our adopting process again. Children are often given to foster homes (of straight people) who get paid to have these children by the government in their homes while they are subjected to physical and mental abuse and in some cases even slavery. I give props to Child Protective Services but they let a ton slip through the cracks....A TON! See the recent "Nixmary Brown" case to understand how much Child services can miss in the overall picture of child welfare.
Also,
"Otherwise, they should go through the same process that straight people do, which ."examines the parenting skills of the adults and determines if society thinks they'd be good parents "
I have no idea what you mean by this, are you suggesting that by having children naturally, you are being selected by nature as "good parents"? Or are you suggesting that society keeps a close eye on what is good parenting? Either way, you are very wrong to think that just because you are straight and "normal" that you are a good parent. Many abusive parents are straight church going people...not to mention the majority of reported spousal abuse occurs in the most relgious regions of this country.
Finally,
Please don't tell me that its not religious. (especially since you follow it up by saying..."although the bible does tell us it's wrong") That's all it is! As religion is used as a tool to establish "morality" in this country. I would give your argument a ton more credibilty had you admitted to that. At least, there would be a logic to it.
I realize this sounds very hostile and for that I apologise because it wasn't meant to be. If you knew me personally you would know that. I was simply trying to point out how your argument has many holes to it.
You couldn't be more wrong! Marriage IS NOT solely "part of the church".
In fact, the history of marriage goes back long before the church! Marriage dates back several thousand years, emerging as a civil arrangement at the same time as the emergence of private property. Far from fulfilling any religious purpose to unite one man and one woman, anthropologists theorize that most primitive marriages were polygamous. Marriages were entered into in order to expand the land or material goods base of a clan, either through the receipt of a dowry or the merger of two clans' assets. Religious guidelines around marriage are not thought to have developed until the practice was several hundred years old, and were first used as a means of preventing different religious groups from losing wealthy followers by restricting them from marrying into other religions.
In Western Europe, it was not until the Middle Ages that marriage in churches began to occur. However, church marriages were not the norm until the 17th century, and then only for the nobility. Marriage was also used as a tool to unite different royal families' bloodlines, creating alliances that were instrumental in enabling the European monarchies to colonize the globe.
Not to mention that there are many different types of marriages around the world! (for example Polygamy, Sexless Marriage, Common-Law MArriage, Arrange Marriage, etc.) In fact, many other nations (including the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, and South Africa) recognize same sex marriages. Non-denominational weddings happen every day. Marriage is certainly NOT a "church" thing.
Like I said, if the church wishes to exclude homosexuals from their "club" I have no problem. But the government CANNOT except this without creating Civil Rights Injustices.