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Is perpetuating the myth of Santa Claus good for children?
Is it OK to tell a child that Santa Claus is real? Is this a harmless "white lie", an innocent and loving attempt to give a child the pleasure of make-believe, and the reassurance of fitting into our culture, or is it essentially and inescapably a lie that can affect the child's critical capacity to trust?
2. If the child doesn't get what they wanted, the parents can simply say something about Santa, instead of explaining how they have no money and cant afford to get the a nice gift.
The truth? Dude, its not like these people are putting bags over their kids heads, they're just using a different character to explain how presents get to the house, so that if they don't have enough money for something, they can just say "oh, guess Santa didn't make it" rather than "sorry lil' billy, but we cant afford anything and will probably lose the house."
I am going to downvote you because you spoke of the "truth." The truth is that nobody knows if Santa Clause is real or not. An example would be to turn around and see if someone name Santa is behind you. Now turn around again because someone named Santa may be behind you. No matter how much you turn around, you are going to be blind to what is behind you. And the question will still arise: Is Santa behind you? :) I can be wrong. My logic has been told "twisted" before.
Of course Santa is good, there is nothing better as a kid than going to sleep on Christmas eve knowing that Santa is coming tonight to fill your stockings with lots of awesome gifts for you and your family. Santa also encourages kids to behave.
Christmas is a magical time of the year when you are a kid and Santa is an essential part of that magic. Kids eventually grow out of these illogical ideas and the world grows dull for them because of this. Kids should be sheltered from reality and given as many good memories as possible during their youth. Otherwise there is a good chance they will grow up cynical and lose the ability to see the good in what is around them.
Myth, really...do you not believe in Saint Nick? Not the incarnation that was created by Coca Cola, but the historical version from stories passed dow generation after generation. I believe there is value to keeping the historical value.
What makes you so sure that they make amends after not receiving a Christmas gift? What if they only do good things because they are afraid that they wont get a gift on Christmas, and not really do these things just for the sake of doing it? Because doing good is right, and not just for presents.
What is selfish about making a child happy, are you really that sad that you believe that making a child's day is a selfish act? If you do I pity your children
They are living in a deception. Would you also kill someone if they found that to be happy? Would you let them only eat oreos because they don't like their vegetables? You are sacrificing much when you tell a lie such as dignity, morality, duty, etc. It is evil. Moreover, your responsibility is to be a parent not a friend. You are selfish and depriving them also as duty, dignity, morality, etc. Why don't you tell them that magic carpet rides are real too and that you have one in the attic.
Of course, if you believe Santa to be real... go ahead! However, knowing that he is not real and telling it to be true is ignorant of the repercussions of telling a lie.
As a side note, telling a lie is different from fantasizing. Fantasizing is an intentional story that can be used for entertainment. However, spreading it as true when you know it to be false is evil.
Telling a kid Santa is real and murder like those two are really comparable in the evil stakes and why would I keep my Magic carpet in the attic its a lot better in the sitting room, I find it ties the whole room together. Your responsibility is to be a parent not a friend which stupid book of arsehole rearing did you get that out of, your only responsibility when you have children is to be a parent when needed and a friend when needed too much of one and not enough of the other does not make for healthy relationships
Children tend to not think about morality and the like. it does not matter at first since they are still children. When they grow up, its their parent`s job to let them know the true reason behind doing good.
You've said so in your past argument that they would reflect on their actions. And now, you're saying that they tend to not think about morality.. How contradicting.
Next, using santa claus for excuse is like saying that... "Hey, the guard will get you if you dont do good." That's always the excuse of the parents who want their child to be good. The kids only do good because they're scared and not really because of goodness. Do you get my point..?
If you tell someone a lie you are in reality depriving them of their ability to make rational choices over primitive, thus depriving them of their dignity. When a person lies, even for a good reason even to a child, you are stealing their freedom. You have taken control of their mind, which is immoral. Moreover, when someone lies they deprive humanity of its cohesion, faith and trust in other people. Therefore, lying in any situation is harmful to both yourself, your partner, and humanity.
Ok chuckles, a belief in Santa is harmless in fact telling kids the truth can be confusing for them. Kids will believe what they believe regardless of what their parents tell them, I had a friend who's parents came up with the same bright idea as yourself when they told their kids Santa did'nt exist they were devastated one of them actually said does that mean he wont come, just goes to show that kids will believe what their friends tell them and what they see in popular culture
It's exactly what it does that's why Christmas is celebrated in December, if he existed Christ would not have been born until the New Year but Pagan religions have always celebrated the winter solstice so to try and trick Pagans into converting to christianity early Church leaders lied about the date Christ was allegedly born. When do you celebrate the birth of Christ?
Simply because something is celebrated on a certain day does not make it intrinsically a lie. We celebrate it because we don't know when Jesus was born; some believe it to be April. However, we are still not lying if we celebrate something on Christmas day.
Now read about the story of Sinterklaas and the even older stories about
how the winter solstice was celebrated and tell me why a belief in Santa Claus, st Nicholas or father Christmas should be taken less seriously than a belief in Jesus Christ at least the sinterklaas, grampus, st Nicholas and father Christmas legends fit the right time frame for the time of year
Because a lie is telling someone something you believe to be false to be true or vise versa even if what you believe to be true is actually false or vice versa.
If I believe in Christ then I should tell them what I see as truth. If someone believes in Santa Claus, then he or she should tell others of him.
You still have your mind in the consequences, which do not matter. Your duty is what matters.
Do you know nothing, the Angel Gabriel visited the shepherds as they tended their flocks by night in the fields, in December the flocks were always kept in sheds not the open the sheep were only kept out in the open during lambing season which has traditionally been springtime also there is mention of the shepherds bringing lambs to the newborn baby Jesus they would not have had any lambs to bring in December
Do you celebrate Christmas in April then and business as usual all through December and as I said the Bible states that the Angel Gabriel visited the Shepherds in the fields while they watched their flocks by night so OK we dont know the exact date and time Jesus was born or what star sign he was but the bible makes it clear that he would have been born in the spring/summer time not the winter. So you go do your thing in April and let those who want to celebrate the solstice or bring their kids up open minded to others beliefs do theirs in December
well i say yes and no, but i think people HATE the myth of santa because kids become ungrateful of how much money theyre parents put into gifts because they think santa did it, not the parents, but i kinda agree with them, but it does encourage kids to be good around the holidays. so im in the middle, as always.
when kids find out that Santa isn't real it takes away the joy and fun of Christmas. i found out last year and i remember how boring and lame Christmas seamed after that. if you don't know about him in the 1st place you wont have to have the joy of Christmas taken away from you when you find out the truth.
