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I do understand your dilemma but think of it this way. When you want to lash out and say...My God, don't you see this or hear what I'm telling you...it sets up an adversarial situation. When that happens, all communication ceases and one is left with the reactive measure of trying to defend themselves and their thoughts, positions or feelings. All the words that are left unsaid can be exchanged for other words that won't hurt you or the other person. You can always say what you really feel by choosing the right words and presenting them with a calm manner and demeanor. Trust me, it works very well ;-). Side: prisoner of words unsaid
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