This seems like the obvious solution however facebook seems to have a heart and soul all its own. I have had people leave comments that I havnt even added as a friend because I didnt want to deal with it. My boss for example. I can see both sides. Its a great way for people to stay in touch or reconnect but on the other side, well I'm sorry but its just creepy. Facebook is a very ego driven entity that seems to feed off humanbeings insecurities. Maybe its just the people in my network but really, how much do you really need to know about someones day to day actions and thoughts. It's like oh look at me, look at me someone please think I'm important and leave a comment on my wall.