Is is stupid to go out, get drunk, have fun for one night as a young mother?
I'm still young, am I irresponsible and a bad influence for my kid if I get one night out?
Stupid whore
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You're okay
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I wouldn't call you a "Stupid whore" but I think getting drunk may not be the wisest decision. The problem with getting drunk in general is that people do stupid things when they are drunk, like getting pregnant, driving drunk, getting into fights with friends, getting arrested, getting raped, etc. More than 50 percent of victims of sexual assault and 70 percent of assailants had used drugs or alcohol prior to the assault (1). If you Google the words "drunk rape" you will get over 34 million matches. You have to consider how those things could impact not only your life, but also the life of your child. If you get arrested who is going to take care of your child? Getting arrested also means you will have a criminal record which will make it significantly harder to find a good job. If you get killed because you or the friend you are with drove while intoxicated your child will no longer have a mother. If you get pregnant the amount of attention your child will get in it's early stages of life will be less because now you're taking care of two babies. If you get raped the emotional trauma can significantly change you as a person and that will eventually affect your child. If you want to get tipsy just to the point where you're still capable of making wise decisions there is probably no harm in that, but I think it's unwise to get drunk enough to where your judgement is significantly impaired, not just because you have a child but for your own safety as well. Side: Stupid whore
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I've never been so drunk I can't control myself. I wasn't even drunk when I got pregnant. And now that I am a mother I am much more mature in all things I do - I know some people say that when you drink, all reason leaves you. That is a big fat lie. You have to drink A LOT before all reason leaves you. Side: You're okay
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This is going to be a bit obvious but as long as the kids OK and got someone looking after them its not a problem, its only irresponsible if you neglect your child or partying comes before your child that kind of thing. Just because your a mother doesn't mean your not allowed to have a social life, you just have to figure out a sensible balance. Side: You're okay
No girl go out and let loose, mothers need that from time to time, if not you will go nuts and forget whats its like to be a kid, if you dont live alittle fun in life that will effect your child in a negative way, you will become that mean mom and you dont want that. Just do it safe, no drinking and driving : ) A happy mom has a happy child. Side: You're okay
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although i don't think most normal mothers would have the energy to do it, i think if she can, its okay. as long as her kid isn't affected or influenced. and young mother or old, isn't that going to about the same thing. maybe the only difference would be that older mothers would seriously be exhausted throughout and have lesser fun. but otherwise i don't think there should be much of a difference. Side: You're okay
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