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Stupid whore You're okay
Debate Score:27
Arguments:27
Total Votes:30
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Is is stupid to go out, get drunk, have fun for one night as a young mother?

I'm still young,   am I irresponsible and a bad influence for my kid if I get one night out?

Stupid whore

Side Score: 10
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You're okay

Side Score: 17
2 points

It's stupid in general to get drunk because all you're doing is drinking to the point where you are hung over and throw up. Why would you want to do that? No one likes throwing up.

Side: Stupid whore
hannah165(523) Disputed
2 points

Not necessarily. When you drink, you don't get drunk for the sole purpose of getting drunk. You do it to let loose and have a little fun. As long as you know your limit, it's fine.

Side: You're okay
Srom(12206) Disputed
1 point

Most of the time people go over their limit and get drunk. Then it leads them to getting out of control.

Side: Stupid whore
Hellno(17753) Disputed
1 point

I'm drunk all the time.... (I would be right now if I wasn't at work) and I never throw up.

Side: You're okay
Srom(12206) Disputed
1 point

That's hard to believe for me. I don't think you're drunk most of the time.

Side: Stupid whore
1 point

If you think that you have truly misunderstood the term ''drinking''.

Side: You're okay
Srom(12206) Disputed
1 point

Your sentence didn't make sense.

Side: Stupid whore
1 point

How daaaaarrrrrrrrrrre you dance and drrrrrrink?!

NAUGHTY
Side: Stupid whore
1 point

You're not a stupid whore! I just think now that you have a child you should be setting the example. I think as long as it's not a habit and the little munchkin is being looked after then you're ok. Be safe about it if you do!

Side: Stupid whore
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
1 point

You say setting the example, what example are you talking about?

Side: Stupid whore
rightwrong(285) Clarified
1 point

Well you are now in charge of someones life. You get to set the rules and example that they live by. Do you want them going out and partying at a young age?

Side: Stupid whore
ProdiNoob(242) Disputed
1 point

Your daughter will want to be raped at clubs if you go out and do it regularly! =o

Side: Stupid whore

I wouldn't call you a "Stupid whore" but I think getting drunk may not be the wisest decision. The problem with getting drunk in general is that people do stupid things when they are drunk, like getting pregnant, driving drunk, getting into fights with friends, getting arrested, getting raped, etc. More than 50 percent of victims of sexual assault and 70 percent of assailants had used drugs or alcohol prior to the assault (1). If you Google the words "drunk rape" you will get over 34 million matches.

You have to consider how those things could impact not only your life, but also the life of your child. If you get arrested who is going to take care of your child? Getting arrested also means you will have a criminal record which will make it significantly harder to find a good job. If you get killed because you or the friend you are with drove while intoxicated your child will no longer have a mother. If you get pregnant the amount of attention your child will get in it's early stages of life will be less because now you're taking care of two babies. If you get raped the emotional trauma can significantly change you as a person and that will eventually affect your child.

If you want to get tipsy just to the point where you're still capable of making wise decisions there is probably no harm in that, but I think it's unwise to get drunk enough to where your judgement is significantly impaired, not just because you have a child but for your own safety as well.

Side: Stupid whore
1 point

I've never been so drunk I can't control myself. I wasn't even drunk when I got pregnant. And now that I am a mother I am much more mature in all things I do - I know some people say that when you drink, all reason leaves you. That is a big fat lie. You have to drink A LOT before all reason leaves you.

Side: You're okay
3 points

This is going to be a bit obvious but as long as the kids OK and got someone looking after them its not a problem, its only irresponsible if you neglect your child or partying comes before your child that kind of thing. Just because your a mother doesn't mean your not allowed to have a social life, you just have to figure out a sensible balance.

Side: You're okay
2 points

No girl go out and let loose, mothers need that from time to time, if not you will go nuts and forget whats its like to be a kid, if you dont live alittle fun in life that will effect your child in a negative way, you will become that mean mom and you dont want that.

Just do it safe, no drinking and driving : )

A happy mom has a happy child.

Side: You're okay
ProdiNoob(242) Disputed
1 point

What if she gets so drunk that she shags the barman and gets preggers all over again and is ethically opposed to abortion and thus has a new baby which, in turn, distracts her for the original baby that she wanted to spend time caring for?

Exactly!

Side: Stupid whore
1 point

don't worry. That will without doubt never happen .

Side: You're okay
1 point

Just because you have a child doesn't mean your life is over. Go out and have some fun if you want. As long as your child is safe with someone you trust, you will be fine :)

Side: You're okay

I do not wanna call you a whore so i pick this answer but please make sure your partners are clean and you use protection. Youre a good kid and I dont wanna see you sick. Im also fearful for your safety. Just be safe, okay?

Side: You're okay
0 points

although i don't think most normal mothers would have the energy to do it, i think if she can, its okay. as long as her kid isn't affected or influenced.

and young mother or old, isn't that going to about the same thing. maybe the only difference would be that older mothers would seriously be exhausted throughout and have lesser fun.

but otherwise i don't think there should be much of a difference.

Side: You're okay