forgive and forget?
wheres the line to forgive and forget? how much can someone do before you shouldnt even be expected to forgive and forget?
Hey. I don't mean to get on your bad side. I don't want to argue with you because i hate that feeling. Although some parts of me like it, i just can't handle that rage. Im not a pedophile. You think i am but i am not.
I honestly think you are worse than a pedophile. My opinions alone. :)
I can kind of see where you're coming from, but let's say that your significant other cheated on you and you decided to forgive him and give him another chance. Would you be able to forget that? If so, what if he did it again? Would it have been forgotten and you give him another chance? Or would you remember it and figure this is now becoming a trend that I don't want any part of anymore? Fool me once, shame on you...fool me twice, shame on me. Would that first instance of cheating be something you could wipe from your mind forever after forgiving them? Or will it be a factor the next time it happens?
I will be completely honest I have learned my lesson that giving someone a second chance doesn't always works and it makes you feel crappy afterward. The thing is that depending on what they did you don't really forget you just bury it for the next fight. but thats just my opinion
Even if you forgive you can never forget. You will always be reminded. Unless you have Alzheimer's or something. Even then you can reminded by constant events everyday. Me I have a slight Short-Term Memory loss thing. Even then these certain events/things remind me of this incident or the other.
It took me such a long time to forgive some people who had hurt me (a lot) but am slowly learning the importance of forgiving but as for forgetting, that is a whole other issue. How can one forget something that destroyed their childhood? How can one foget something that was so evil and took place for years? It is very difficult if at all possible and this is definitely not something I will grasp any time soon, but forgiving - that I can do.
The question is, do I want to forgive?
Side: after I kill them