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i'm okay with it No that is not okay
Debate Score:18
Arguments:9
Total Votes:19
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Children and dating?

How young is it for kids now a days to be dating? I have seen 13 year olds holding hands and kissing, having a daughter of my own I don't approve. I think that is too young. 

 

 

If you are a teen how do you feel about it? 

 

If you are a parent how do you feel about it? 

 

All other comments are welcomed! 

i'm okay with it

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No that is not okay

Side Score: 8
3 points

If both dating partners are happy about the relationship, I don't see why it should be disallowed.

But, as with all things that children get up to, dating should be allowed only as long as it does not interfere with the important things, like their health and schoolwork. If a child's dating (or gaming, or texting, or anything else) is hurting their education or physical/psychological growth, it needs to be checked.

Side: i'm okay with it
2 points

I think it is a good thing to let them explore the dating world unless it interfere with other important activities in their life.

Side: i'm okay with it

I agree with Peekaboo. I have dated a few times and warned them straight out that I care more about my future than them. They seemed OK with that... for a while.

We all need and enjoy affection, including teenagers. So, I believe that we should allow teenagers to date if they want. In that case, parents should inform their kids about the possible consequences of dating such as sex and how pregnancy will ruin their lives.

Side: i'm okay with it
1 point

I think it is good to date in high school because you learn more from your mistakes.And also learn how to handle a mature relationship. But not in mid school because you are less mature and my not do work or concentrate because of so much thinking of the person your dating

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1 point

I'm completely okay with this.

Firstly when you're at that age your social skills aren't properly developed, so getting into a relationship can be constructive towards preparing them for the future; Especially if it ends badly, it will teach the adolescent how to cope with future trauma.

Secondly dating when young is exciting, so if in the future -I know this is very rare but- they encounter an untimely death or receive some kind of socially inflicting experience, at least they'd lived while young.

My third and final point is the fact that if two individuals want to be together, we as adults don't really have a right to separate them, in most cases anyway. Trying to intercept their relationship is halting their free will, and I'm pretty confident that if you alter a teenagers social life, it will have a much more negative effect than if you left them to cope and learn about these things on their own. Who knows, this person your keeping from them could make their lives much better than without.

However there are certain situations when the parent must take a stand, for example if your teenage daughter got involved with some crooks, it is unacceptable to have them with them; This though, isn't really related to dating, it's more about children and getting involved in crime, it will happen or not happen regardless of whether it involves dating. So to get back to the point, dating at a young age is fine in my opinion , any negatives that follow this are possible to occur without dating anyway: Such as abusive boyfriends, as you could get abusive friends, and so on. So I don't see the harm.

Side: i'm okay with it
1 point

I am ok with it if there is some level of parent oversight or other group activity

Side: i'm okay with it
4 points

I just think that parents need to keeps kids that age busy with sports and other actvities, then they don't have time for dating, as a matter of fact, they aren't even interested till later on in high school.

Side: No that is not okay
2 points

I have 16 and 17 year olds that work for me and it amazes me that they do things me and friends never dreamed of doing until we were years older... things are definitely different now but I guess that's been going on for a long time... one just has to wonder where it stops?

Side: No that is not okay
2 points

I won't pretend that it doesn't trouble me seeing some kids dating, just because I see what they are doing. That is scary especially when the child is 13 years old. I am okay with teens dating but I am also okay if it starts at the age of 16 or 17.

Then again I don't have children but I know that wrong is wrong and 13 is too young!

Side: No that is not okay