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 How do you know when you are in LOVE? (11)

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How do you know when you are in LOVE?

What is the most obvious signs you get/got when you experience/d love? Be completely honest please!

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3 points

You know when your in love when you can walk away from something that you love to do without missing it and your partner should never have ask you to leave it.

It isn't when you have butterflies in your stomach because that is just indigestion.

Side: when you can walk away
3 points

It's when you lie in bed at night thinking of that person. And everytime you hear her voice you smile and everytime you see her face your heart skips a beat (well sort of). Love is finding the good things in the other person and ignoring the bad things.

Side: when you can walk away

I was going to say, "When you get a big, raging, hard on!" but then I read some of the other responses and they seem more right ;)

Side: when you can walk away
1 point

That's a little something we call "lust". Haha. It's too bad a lot of people actually do mix up the two...

Side: when you can walk away
1 point

Wolf's right.

You love someone when you want the best for them even if it's not you. And if it is you, well, you're pretty lucky then.

Not to get all sappy,

it's always nice to hang out with any pretty girl, but you know your in love when you still want them around after sleeping together. If you think about them when they're not around.

While it's nearly impossible for any guy to stop thinking about sex with random girls, if you're in love she'll at least put a dent in those fantasies,

That said, "love" has more to do with timing I think than anything, and I don't think one can really call it love unless they've been with that person for a descent amount of time.

Side: timing
1 point

So in a sense, a lot of what you are saying translates to:

When it doesn't feel right masturbating because you don't want to degrade her then you can safely assume it is love?

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Side: Genious
iamdavidh(4856) Disputed
2 points

lol,

what! god no, masturbation is all someone in a commited relationship has left for themself!

Side: Genious
1 point

watch this video ! what he says is almost COMPLETELY true in my life (:

and here's the lyrics if you can't understand him. haha. he speaks fast.

I want a love like me thinking of you thinking of me thinking of you type love, or me telling my friends more than I've ever admitted to myself about how I feel about you type love, or hating how jealous you are, but loving how much you want me all to your self type love, or seeing how your first name just sounds so good next to my last name, and shit, I wanted to see how far I could get without calling you, and I barely made it out of my garage.

See, I want a love that makes me wait until she falls asleep then wonder if she dreaming about us being in love type love, or who loves the other more, or what she's doing at this exact moment, or slow dancing in the middle of our apartment to the music of our hearts, closing my eyes and imagining how a love so good could just hurt so much when she not there. Shit, I love not knowing where this love is headed type love.

And check this, I want to place those little post-it notes all around the house so she never forgets how much I love her type love then not have enough ink in my pen to write all there is to love about her type love. Hope that I make her feel as good as she makes me feel, and I want to deal with my friends making fun of me the way I made fun of them when they went through the same kind of love type love. Only difference is this is one of those real love type loves. and just like in high school, I want to spend hours on the phone with her not saying shit, and then fall asleep and then wake up with HER right next to me, and smell her all up in my covers type love.

I want to try to counting the ways I love her, and then lose count in the middle just so that I have to start all over again.

I want to celebrate one of those month anniversaries even though they ain't really anniversaries, but doin' it just cause it makes her happy type love.

And check this, I want fall in love with the melody the phone plays when her number is dialed in to her type loves and then talk to you til I lose my breathe, she leaves me breathless, so with the expanding of my lungs I inhale all of her back into me.

I want a love that makes me need to change my cell phone calling plan to something that allows me to talk to her longer because, in all honesty, I want to avoid one of them high cell phone bill type loves.

I want a love that makes me regret how small my hands are I mean the lines on my palms don't give me enough time to love as long as I'd like to type loves, and I want a love that makes me st-st-st-st-stutter just thinking about how strong this love is type love.

I want a love that makes me want to cut off all my hair. ...Well, maybe not all of the hair maybe just cut the split ends and trim my mustache, but it will still be a symbol of how strong my love is for her.

And check this, I kinda feel comfortable now, so I can tell y'all this I even be fantasizing about walking out on a green light just dying to get hit by a car just so I could lose my memory get transported to some third world country just to get treated then somehow meet up again with you so that I could fall in love with you in a different language just to see if it still feels the same type love.

I want a love that's as unexplainable as she is, but I'm married, so she is going to be the one that I share this love with.

Shinan on Def Poetry Jam
Side: love like this

you know when your in love when you will go out of your way to please them and when you are away from them all you can think about is how you want to be with them and if you truly love them and they don't feel the same you know you have to let them go

Side: you wil feel it in your heart
1 point

I'll just know.... somehow....confused

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my head hurts, I don't know.

when I do love I'll know.... ;););););)

Side: I wil jus know somehow