I don't think so. Going into marriage a virgin can actually teach you to adjust to your partner's needs and wants and them only. It can actually be a safe learning environment. Infidelities can throw a wrench in the marriage of those couples who previously had sex before marriage. After 2 or 3 years of sex and then getting married and continuing it provides people with the same old routine and can actually discourage marriage. If I can be with this person, have sex, potential have kids, a house, etc, what's the point of getting married? I can have all this without the messy paper work, expensive wedding and not have to worry about a messy divorce. Think about that.

If that was the case then drug addicts or alcoholics should give in to their desires because of coarse it's unfair to their bodies and desires. If you give into every urge I guarantee you will be subjected to them throughout life and your own will power will be weak. I've seen it and been through it.