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 Take a moment and think about this. (26)

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Take a moment and think about this.

When you see a person that is so handicapped that he can only sit in a chair all day long, have you ever thought that inside his head he is totally normal? He is conscious, he has opinions and more importantly, and what I want to discuss now, is that he also has needs.

Needs? Wtf am I talking about?     A handicapped boy that can't move his arms, still has sexual needs, and there is no way he can fulfill his needs. He can't even jerk off.

So what I want to debate is - do you think it would be acceptable for a mother of such a boy to pay someone to do it for him? Not necessarily have sex with him, but just you know .. do the stuff for him, since he is physically unable to do it himself? Someone professional?

Because the mother certainly can't do it herself, that would be very uncomfortable for both her and the handicapped person.. and illegal I think too.   And these mother have requested this service, it has been in debating in some countries - because these people show clear signs of that they have sexual needs.

Some nurces are willing to go into the patients room, place a vibrator on .. ''them'' .. walk out of the room, and come in again when they're done, and be totally professional about it.

 

How do you feel about this? Totally unaccetable? Or what?

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"Sexual needs" there is no such thing as a sexual need, there are sexual desires. I have desires for kiwifruit, but I'm allergic to it. I don't have a kiwi need, I have a desire that I can't fulfill without consequences. So ya, those are my thoughts.

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Lol no - there is such a thing as a sexual need. Are you familiar with the term ''horny''? Horny is just like being hungry. You have a need for food, and you have a need for sex.

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That is a terrible comparison, you can live without sex, you can't live without food.

Well it could be perfectly legal and you could do it, theirs another option. That's what "wet dreams" are for.

I think it's totally fine, though illegal if you're paying for it. Are we talking about someone who can't communicate? Because it would be tricky for a girl in that situation. She has needs, but she wouldn't necessarily want every guy to do her.

shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
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I'm talking about .. masturbation, more than sex. With a girl, you could help her place a vibrator .. and simply walk out.

Are you thinking about applying for one of these "professional" jobs if it became legal ;)

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No, I could not do that myself. But there are people who are willing to do it, and there are people requesting it.

I'm requesting it right now. ;)

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I think it should be fine. I know that in my home country we had a boy who lost his arms and one leg in a terrible accident. Some lady would help him jack off and usually take care of him. I don't know if it was legal or not. I don't think anybody cared either.

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Is that all you have to do? Lay a vibrator on it and wait? Damn! I've been doing it wrong all along!

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I think that only works for women, but you are welcome to try ;)

That's a sin! You can't touch your body because it's not your body, you're renting it from GOD!

Lol, I'm assuming this is a joke, since your profile says ''agnostic'' :)

I chose that mostly because my view couldn't be expressed entirely with just one, and that's the widest spectrum for me, but hell yea it's a joke.

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Ew. .

shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
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How come you find that disgusting?

I'm sure you masturbate from time to time, it's nothing to be ashamed of - imagine if you couldn't do it.

Sitara(11080) Clarified
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I have a problem with prostitution, not masterbation on a child.

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There is a market for this; I just think you'd need to be careful that the disabled person can explicitly request sexual release. In Nevada they have legal prostitution; although I'm not sure, I'd think they would have people who specialized in this.

Are you suggesting we define this practice as separate from prostitution? Like 'specialized physical therapy'?

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I would love it if these people meet their needs but wouldn't it be legalization of prostitution.

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No I don't think so.

I am not really talking about sex, more of someone to help them take care of things - not with sex but with masturbation. I feel like that makes it different.