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52
44
in real life in social networks
Debate Score:96
Arguments:50
Total Votes:114
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what is better: to make friends in real life or in social networks?

in real life

Side Score: 52
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in social networks

Side Score: 44

I think meeting someone in real life is better because you get to see the person and hear the person speaking. There is the element of in-person contact.

Side: in real life
2 points

Friends are friends no matter where you meet them. But face to face real life friends are authentic because they have to be (you can see the lies or discrepancies yourself) while social network friends are hypothetical based on the limited information you gathered from each other over electronic media. It can be real, but it can also be sugar coated or outright fabricated.

Ideally you should have a blend of both, and use sound judgment before trusting too much in anyone.

Side: in real life
2 points

I am sure that it is much better to make friends in real life. They are the ones who really care about us and who we can count on anytime we need. Of course, I'll have all my real-life friends in my social networks; but not all my 'friends' in social media are my real friends. Most of them are people who I need to keep in touch with somehow. I strongly believe that having a friend in real life makes you feel much happier than only having them in social networks. So, I tell you: make real-life friends!

Side: in real life
2 points

I prefer in real life, because nothing's better than human interaction, eye to eye, be with someone else

Side: in real life
2 points

I think real friends are better, because you may be talking to someone you met on the internet and the chance of that person being a scam is very high, already having a real friend, you are there seeing the person in front of you, listening to the voice and knowing your personality

Side: in real life
2 points

I think that making friends in real life is better because you have more guarantee of who that person is, different from the internet.

Side: in real life
2 points

There are advantages for both sides. But for me, works more making friends in real life, because when people are chatting in the internet, you can never see what his intentions really are, you can't see if one's telling the truth or not, or even if he/she is the people you see in the photo. It's more reliable meet people face to face, share moments in time and space, and build a strong link between you and other one by living things together, that aren't just virtual ones.

Side: in real life
2 points

Making new friends is always valid, as long as the friendship is healthy and non-toxic. However, we have entered a complicated period, as the pandemic does not allow us to meet new people in person.

So, from that point on, a question is addressed, is it better to make friends virtually or in person?

Starting an online friendship is something different, as the person creates bonds with another even without being close to them. However, virtual friendship cannot reach the same level as face-to-face friendship, because the friendship that is formed makes the moment magical, unforgettable. Why generally face-to-face friendships are face-to-face.

Side: in real life
2 points

I believe that making friends in person is better because it develops the ability to have a good relationship with people, in addition to meeting them in person is less dangerous.

Side: in real life
2 points

because I think it’s easier for you to connect with the person, and it’s easier to do programs when you’re together in person, which can strengthen the friendship

Side: in real life
1 point

I think making friends in real life is safer, because you have the guarantee that this person is themselves

Side: in real life
1 point

Creio que quando socialisamos com pessoas em nosso dia a dia temos uma convivência melhor e conhecemos muito melhor a pessoas, isso é perceptível por exemplo em uma conversa onde você pode olhar no olha da pessoa com quem conversa e atendê-lo melhor, pois está vendo suas expressões corporais. Isso não é algo que vemos em conversas por mensagem de texto, publicações ou ligações via áudio através das redes sociais.

Por esses motivos eu acredito que fazer amigos "na vida real" seja algo melhor que amigos somente virtuais.

Side: in real life
1 point

A friendship in real life does not compare to a virtual friendship. The exchange of contact, of ideas, the fun with someone, the exchange of warmth between friends, laughter, nothing compares to that.

Side: in real life
1 point

Making friends in real life is better because you have direct contact with him, you really know him, and as a result, friendship becomes stronger and we start to trust more.

Side: in real life
1 point

It is easier to trust someone you really know. There is a son in the eye, a tight hug, he lives the best moments together, all of which makes a huge bond.

Side: in real life
1 point

Making a friend in real life is the only way you can truly know the actual person you're trying to be friends with. In social networks, relationships are empty and emotionless. While IRL they are warn and more intimate.

Side: in real life
1 point

In my opinion it is much better to make friends in person, because at least there you will be seeing that it is something uplifting and true, apart from that the experiences are much more nostalgic and affective

Side: in real life
0 points

I am for making friends in real life, because making friends in real life you know who is this person, but in social networks it is impossible to know person as well as you can do it in real life. There is no guarantee that this person is really good. May be he at that moment sit in prison or may be he is a asexual maniac and etc. Social networks are not reliable way to make friends.

Side: in real life
0 points

You can also waste your precious time in

chatting with someone whom you do not know well, because this can make you more isolated from the real world, and you might get frustrated when nobody is ONLINE, which is bad addiction.

Side: in real life
0 points

I did not say that all people in social netwroks are maniacs or prisoners. It can be so. I also have an example when one woman socilized or chat with one guy, she almost fall in love with him and said him about it. Then she offered to meet. What did he say? He was a prisoner and sat in prison, and asked her to bring him some clothes and food. It turned out that this man had several women, who was falling in love with him and forced them to protect him in prison. Is it a good side of social networks? When I sai it I meant that in social networks there many different people, whom you do not know well and familiarity with bad persons can lead to terrible consequences.

Side: in real life
Someone2 Disputed
1 point

Wait: you can use a mobile-phone or a PC in the prision?

...

For me, this is fake

Side: in social networks
Someone2 Clarified
1 point

I think its fake.

To start: you cant use mobile-phone or PC in the prision.

To contnue: that sound so much like a tipical film/history

Side: in real life
0 points

It is not an index that several millions or billions people are registered in social networks that making friends in social networks is better than making them in real life.

And I want to add that using chatting abbreviations or

shortcuts in your study writings can lead to many problems with your appearance at university. Because this habit can effect your writing skills and it become part of your regular use, which can also create proper spelling problems. That is why making friends in real life is better and more reliable and more real than doing it in social networks.

Side: in real life
0 points

I think in real life to make friends because you actually see the friends and you spend time with each other. You dont know who the person is behind the screen

Side: in real life
0 points

Without any doubt its better to have a face-to-face friendship.

I connected with a few people online and I wouldn't call them friends until I'd spoken to them properly and met.

They say "Dont trust online-smiles". Well there are a lot of illusions when you are online.

Nothing can substitute life communication.

Side: in real life
0 points

I`m for making friends in real life. I don`t want to say that all people in Internet are maniacs, crazy and horny. Nevertheless, you can not be sure in person sitting on the opposite screen`s side. Moreover, it is impossible to know person from different sides. You can chatting with one person, but in real life he/she can appears in absolutely another image.I think,that friends it is those people with whom you have similar interests. There are a lot of opportunities to make a friend. E.g. at school, work, university and etc. It is more easily to understand a person face to face and determine "Who is who?"There is no necessity to risk and waste time!

Side: in real life
0 points

Who said that people from Internet are your real friends? We call people friends, though we have met them only 1 time, I think that any person meet real friends in the beginning of his life. Everything is checked by time and friendship is no an exception.

Side: in real life
0 points

May be it can be more easily to find our a friend in Internet than in real life, but outcomes of making On-line friends can be very,very deplorable. According to statistics 99% of on-line acquaintances ending failures. Of course, in Internet you can find person with ideal photo or profile, but there is no guarantee that person on this photo will be the same, as it was indicated in his/her profile.Moreover, it is better to say nothing about cases of pedophilia. Of course, I cannot agree,that making friends online so hopelessly. I know the couple, who met in Internet and even married. Probably it is exception from general rules.

Side: in real life
0 points

I advice you all to make friends at real life becase I had an expirience with a friend. We talk every day at msn and we are like best friends but in real life we don' t even look each other or say ''hi'' to each other. This made me very sad and now we are like strangers... But however some people can try not to fall to this sichation

Side: in real life
0 points

It's better to make friends in reality then in social networking sites. To start off, I would like to define social networking sites as a social network service is an online service, platform, or site that focuses on building and reflecting of social networks. And face to face as reality.

Although to some extend I do agree that it is easier to talk online as it is not as awkward to bring up topics there. However, when we do not really know the person well, we would not know what the person might be thinking. They might even have ulterior motives. Statistics from National Cyber Security Alliane (NCSA) - MacAfee Online Safety Study, 2011 have shown that 15% of Americans have never checked their social networking privacy and security account settings. This allows strangers or people who you do not recognize all over the world to get hold of your particulars. This may bring harm to yourself, putting yourself in danger zone. Statistics from Pew Research Center, FOSI, Cable in the Classroom, 2011 also haven shown that 69% of social media-using teens think that peers are mostly kind to each other on social networking sites, however, 88% of teens have seen someone be mean or curel to another person on a social networking site. 12% of teens say they witnessed cruel behavior "frequently" on social networking sites. 15% of social media-using teens say they have been the target of online meanness. 41% of social media-using teens have experienced at least one negative outcome as a result of using a social networking site.

-25% have had an experience that led to a face-to-face argument or confrontation.

-22% have had an experience that ended their friendship with someone.

-13% have had an experience that caused a problem with their parents.

-8% have gotten into a physical fight with someone else because of something that happened on a social networking site.

-6% have gotten in trouble at school because of an experience on a social networking site.

This means that people might think that so-and-so is friendly because he/she seems friendly to you. That person might be mean to people who they know in real life. And this is called cyber bullying.

Also, statistics from Journal of Adolescent Health 27, 2010 have clearly shown that 29% of Internet sex crime relationships were initiated on a social networking site. In 26% of online sex crimes against minors, offenders disseminated information and/or picutres of the victim through the victim's personal social networking site. 33% of of all Internet-initiated sex crimes involved social networking sites. In half of all sex crimes against a minor involving a social networking site, the social networking site was used to initiate the relationship. Cases of Internet sex crimes against children involving social networking sites were more likely to result in a face-to-face meeting. This was true of 81% of Internet-initiated crimes involving a social networking site.

With all these harms that you might face while making friends with someone whom you completely do not know, will you still choose to make friends online? Hence, i strongly feel that making friends in real life is better.

Side: in real life
0 points

in my opinion it is much better to have friends in real life, because friendships are more fun and there are also several tasks that can be done in person, such as: go for an ice cream, go for a walk and among many others.

Side: in real life
Cleomadson(3) Disputed
1 point

I discordo because if you don't have whatsapp 2, você don't consegue se socializar right, ok? Abraços!

Side: in social networks
1 point

I sei men, it's even difícil quando people domt geth these coisas

Side: in social networks
0 points

Uh... I'm very socially awkward, so it's kinda difficult to me to get to people and make a friendship come out of nowhere, I mean, I think I'm cool and have a nice personality and all because I don't have difficulty to be friends with someone once I know them, but yeah, even though it may be hard to me to make friends in real life and so much easier to get into virtual relationships, I still say it's better to have friends in real life because it's kinda tough sometimes when you have that friend you made in a social network and one of you are feeling bad in some way and there is nothing you can do to help each other, it may be very emotionally hurtful.

Side: in real life
4 points

In my opinion it i better to make friends anyway, but there can be some problems to socialize with someone from another country. What will you do? Nowadays it is very developed sphere, i mean social network. And it is not problem to make friends with someone, only after that to see him/her in real life. You can choose by some criterias. Style may be appearance can influence to your deicision, and you can socialize with your friend 24 hours per day. I think there more advatages to make friends in social networks rather than in real life.

Side: in social networks
4 points

It is impossible to sit in internet in a prison. And you can make friend with someone, after that socialize with him, to learn him/her better, and finally to meet with him/her. You are not going to find out someone and at once meet with him/her. Basically, it is best way to learn more about this person, by his/her photoes, comments, hobbies are available in his/her main page. For instance, our family friends and my daddy's collegues are married 7 years ago. Firstly they found out each others in mail.ru social network, after that they socialized a lot, then started to call to each othr and only after a lot of month they met. And it was their first date. Is it bad? Are they maniacs? or prisoners? NO, it is better to make friends in social networks.

Side: in social networks
4 points

There are a lot of social networks such as vkontakte, moy mir, facebook, twitter where you can not only socialize with someone. You even can to play onine games, to see each others photoes, to make comments, to orginize interview, to listen to music and more... If your parents are very strict, and you can not meet with someone at night or in the evening, how will you make friends? surely, in social networks.

Side: in social networks
NineDiamonD(17) Disputed
4 points

Surely no. Firstly, it is not required to make friends at night or in the evening. I personally can make friends even in the afternoon or in the morning, it does not matter.

Secondly, our topic is about making friends, not about listening to music, playing games and etc. I am not against socila networks at all. I do not agree that making friend in social networks is better than in real life.

Side: in real life
TorrieJayy(4) Disputed
3 points

True indeed if your parents are strict or if you can't go out to see your actual friends you could get on a social network. But the problem is that nowadays most of the people you meet on a network if you haven't ever met them in real life are fake, pervs, or predators. Not saying that all networks are like that or that all people on there are like that but you never know. A predator can play the role of a trust worthy person for a while and get your information and who knows what else. It's just more safe to make friends in real life.

Side: in real life
3 points

As a statistics shows facebook is the most popular social network, in fact more than 750 million people are rigistrated there. twitter users are about 200 million people. vkontakte more than 100 million. And this is only active users who visits social networks every week. What about just registered wih are visits not as often as active users, Facebook +640 million, Ozone +480 million, haboo and twitter +200 million, Myspace and orkut + 120 million, bebo and vkontakte +115 million, tagged and badoo +100 million. And it is far not all. Finally more than billion people are using social networks.

Side: in social networks
3 points

In my point of view, internet becomes part of our life. We also should consider it like simple meeting someone in the street. In any case people can lie both in internet and during face to face contact. It depends on you, to believe or not. For me, it is easier to comunicate with someone by chats and social networks. You can analyse the context of speech. (What to say, how to answer and etc.)

Side: in social networks
3 points

Nowadays we have more friends in social network rather than in real life. Sometimes you have problems, but you can`t share it with friends in real life,so in network you don`t know the person and easily you can share everything what you have in your mind. Also it`s good if your friend from another country, you become more open-minded, you will get new information, you will know their traditions, i think that`s sound is really nice. We spend a lot of time for internet and chatting, but also we have to have close friends in real life.

Side: in social networks
3 points

Surfing the internet is popular recent years, and more and more people would like to make friends online.In our pinions,making friends online has many advantages.

Firstly,we can communicate with strangers with no worry about the embarrassment which may happen in face to face talk.Making friends online make us more comfortable especially when we are shy.

Secondly,we will meet new people from all over the world,and learn different cultures in different places,which can surly widens our eyes and makes us become more knowledgeable.

Thirdly,Connecting with people especially from English-speaking countries through Internet can also improve our English level.Personally,I think it’s a pretty cool thing to have several foreign friends .

In a word,required by China’s reform and opening up,advancing with the world’s development becomes a necessary task of our generation.Therefore,making friends online doubtlessly can be made use of,as an important and efficient way,to achieve that due to its own features.

 

Side: in social networks
3 points

i have a question. Making frends in real life is involved in many emotional and personal sensations.So it must be accompanied by a quarrel, embarrassment, disgust, hypocrisy, traditional code of conduct and so on, let our heart tired. But in the network to make friends, we can only communicate with our favorite people, to do the most true of our own.So aren't they the most reassuring friends?

Side: in social networks
3 points

Though i agree on both sides, people in person will often judge someone before the 5 minute period you can study them during conversation. What i mean by this is when you see someone new and engage in conversation, first impression on the topic decides subconsciously how they supposedly think there as leading to a misconception that you should, or should not trust them. Several key points I would like to explain would be the idea in which if only social media relations existed, how would people be quick to understand what someone may be like considering you cannot see them at a large factor. This also combats the social idea, without seeing them, you may happen across an exceptional manipulator, not the proper term though that's beside the given point. Either way, you're bound to misjudge someone, though looks are an extreme illusion in modern society because we were raised that people with horrid intentions dress and act mischievously, though in actuality, most of those people blend in perfectly in looks, I personally would rather use proxy and meet online than meet in person and risk them knowing far more about me and the way i think and react to every situation. I would love to understand all points of view so please, consider both points I've made and make your own conclusion.

Side: in social networks
2 points

I dont know who is better in general, but I think it have not to be bad to communicate with social networks

Side: in social networks
1 point

It is better on social networks because we can talk to people who are close and also from other countries, thus increasing the variety of vocabulary

Side: in social networks
1 point

Who said that people from Internet are your real friends? We call people friends, though we have met them only 1 time, I think that any person meet real friends in the beginning of his life. Everything is checked by time and friendship is no an exception.

Side: in social networks
1 point

I believe that everywhere, but on social networks we have the chance to meet people from afar and thus get acquainted with other languages.

Side: in social networks