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Why are the debates here so personal?

It seems like we are very quick to ridicule opinions and values, shouldn't we aim higher and create a more welcoming debating community? Maybe more people would stay longer if they felt that their arguments were challenged rather than belittled and laughed at.

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3 points

All debate websites turn personal after they land a couple conservative trolls on their memberships but this site magnifies it by allowing the "ban" feature which allows trolls to throw stink bombs and then hide behind a ban.

It's true.

Basically our local trolls can get away with more here than anywhere else so we get the worst offenders here to stay.

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2 points

I fight my demons but sometimes we just cuddle. Maybe you can apply the same tactic to the conservative trolls ;)

Wait...., am I on that list?

Side: I agree
FromWithin(8241) Disputed
1 point

What a shock, our site Liberal is calling out Trolls as being Conservatives. You are the exact person this debate is speaking to.

Open your eyes and see your personal attacks against those who have differing opinions.

YOU JUST CALLED PEOPLE WHO ARE CONSERVATIVES....... as the TROLLS!

Where was your mention of a debate site landing a couple Liberal Trolls?

You are blind to your intolerance.

People ban others for very good reasons and have every right to do so. You are so blind to your Liberal slant that you can not believe someone would ever ban your extremist Liberal opinions.

Newsflash.... you are the extreme ones. Your ideology is extreme. Your ideology even supports killing viable unborn babies all the way up to birth for any reason. Debating that type of extremism often times ends up with bans. LIVE WITH IT!

Side: I disagree
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
1 point

I just want to clarify that I didnt point this debate towards anyone specific. This is just how I feel the general community behaves, myself included. I think we are all more or less to blame.

Side: I agree
Cartman(18192) Disputed
1 point

A conservative troll is a troll that happens to be conservative. Troll conservatives would be the phrase that would mean that he thinks all conservatives are trolls.

Liberal trolls don't get personal, they get irrational.

People ban others for very good reasons and have every right to do so.

People can ban for good reasons and have every right to, but the most frequent users if bans do not have good reasons. Good reasons have to be accurate in order to actually be good.

Your ideology is extreme.

You have proven you don't know what extreme means.

Your ideology even supports killing viable unborn babies all the way up to birth for any reason.

So does yours. Your ideology is more likely to have them, too.

Debating that type of extremism often times ends up with bans. LIVE WITH IT!

You are the only one who claims to not be able to live with it.

Side: I agree
Grenache(6053) Disputed
1 point

Ha ha ha. There are two people on this site who commit 75% or more of the bans, and then who smear and slam those people after they can no longer answer. FromWithin and SaintNow. Deal with it. This is your fame.

Side: I agree
1 point

That doesn't really explain why everyone takes them so seriously though...

Also, have to disagree that we get the worst offenders here. (I mean, ever heard of 4chan?)

Side: I disagree
3 points

I think there are two factors here. The first is you get a measure of a person after a little bit of time on here so you know what to expect and subsequently you take what they say with either an eye roll or a grain or salt or just ignore them all together. This debate site is one of the few where it gives the person hosting the debate the power to ban others, which some people take to mean they get to ban anyone who disagree's with them and then comment....repeatedly..... after banning them in a desperate attempt to prove something. You just can't take that person seriously. Then you have others who leave the debate open, regardless of who flings what. I enjoy reading nearly all of them though, as it gives you a different perspective and a small sense of insight into a person.

The second is, you can't control everyone, some times you can get some REALLY great ideas and viewpoints from people that you'd never thought of before. If a person starts flinging mud then just move on, their stance isn't going to be that strong if they go into personal attacks, so you have to take control of what you do and deal with it accordingly. Debates can be personal because some people either A. think any opposite stance is an attack on the person themselves, or B. they are simply very passionate about some things. Just pick and choose your battles.

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1 point

some people ban anyone who disagree's with them and then comment....repeatedly..... after banning them

That behavior reflects bad on them. Not on the person that got banned. ;)

Side: I agree
1 point

Oh absolutely. It's hard to take them seriously. Banning someone then commenting at them afterwards just makes the banner look ridiculous.

Side: I agree

In my experience, I find liberals very intolerant of others who disagree with them. It can't be that there is another valid opinion or, God forbid, they are wrong (usually this one), it has to be that you are a moron, stupid, or some other "term of endearment" they can come up with to marginalize you and put you in your place. I find them very unaccepting of those who don't toe the liberal line.

Side: I agree
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
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I feel the same way about certain conservatives on this site. I dont think its more or less liberals or conservatives that bully, its just that as a conservative you only get that attitude from liberals, and the same with me from conservatives.

Side: I agree

I certainly see your point; like minded people don't go off on each other, only on those with different viewpoints.

Side: I agree
WhatIsDaAuck(274) Clarified
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that is because liberal vs conservative debates are always so silly .like whether police should shoot black people for no reason, that is not a reasonable debate .and yet conservatives will defend their position to the death .of course that is going to become personal .but if you are debate chocolate vs vanilla ice cream, that is much less likely to become personal .

Side: I agree
2 points

I agree but i see it normal. Its something to be expected in an argument. Any offensive words people here throw are just mere words to me and i don't remember them. So if your patience is Not accommodative enough.......moon walk out

Side: I agree
2 points

This is a debate site for people who don't want to debate either because they are too stupid (e.g. Sitara), only here to promote political ideologies (e.g fromwithin, saintnow) or can't can't be arsed anymore (me Cartman Hellno etc)

Side: I agree
jeffreyone(1383) Disputed
1 point

You probably swapped brains in a psychiatric hospital before saying this right?(Certainly not with a doctor or visitor)

Side: I disagree
Atrag(5666) Disputed
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I don't believe brain swapping is actually possible. Wouldn't it have made more sense just to call me mentally ill? You fit the Sitara group btw.

Side: I agree
1 point

how dare you say such a t hing

Side: I agree
1 point

I've been here for like 6 years or so. I tried to set an example by trying to keep debates light hearted. But it hasn't worked. Some people have a different sense of humor ;)

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1 point

Different as in, existent. ;)

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1 point

Oh, I get it! You're saying that I'm not funny! Ha, ha.

Side: I agree
0 points

Well when the site allows mentally unstable people like KNHav and Saintnow post their rants up well it's going to get personal ; anyone who disagrees with this pair of prize idiots is banned as they normally ask a question then ignore the answer and instead hurl abuse at everyone .

Fight fire with fire I say :)

Side: I agree
0 points

Well when the site allows mentally unstable people like KNHav and Saintnow post their rants up well it's going to get personal ; anyone who disagrees with this pair of prize idiots is banned as they normally ask a question then ignore the answer and instead hurl abuse at everyone .

Fight fire with fire I say :)

Side: I agree
-1 points

Well when the site allows mentally unstable people like KNHav and Saintnow post their rants up well it's going to get personal ; anyone who disagrees with this pair of prize idiots is banned as they normally ask a question then ignore the answer and instead hurl abuse at everyone .

Fight fire with fire I say :)

Side: I agree
jeffreyone(1383) Disputed
1 point

You mentioning names is also being personal. There first debate i met you in had insults in almost all of your opinions.

Side: I disagree
Dermot(5736) Disputed
1 point

So you ask me a question I answer it and your reply is to go off on a rant ....

Side: I agree
1 point

Well when the site allows mentally unstable people like KNHav and Saintnow post their rants up well it's going to get personal ; anyone who disagrees with this pair of prize idiots is banned as they normally ask a question then ignore the answer and instead hurl abuse at everyone .

Fight fire with fire I say :)

Side: I disagree
1 point

People think differently. I believe that they are physically wired differently. As long as they are not actively trying to destroy or hurt something or someone. I have some friends and relatives that seem to think 180 degrees from the way I think and they are very passionate about their beliefs and I know there is no way I will ever be able to change their minds. So I just shrug, smile, and move on ;)

I have fought fire with fire before but it is not very satisfying because it means that someone was able to drag you down to their level.

Side: I disagree
Dermot(5736) Clarified
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Yes debate is fine and well , if someone gets nasty and aggressive I will give it back and unfortunately for some reason the majority of debates go that way on this site

Side: I agree

As people we love to commit to a view point. Yet, often lack the time, wisdom, and understanding to express our views clearly to other. A sign can read and say, walk don’t run. But, there will always be the basic drive to be somewhere first.

People who leave have some ware else to be first. Try not to take it personal time affords us the opportunity to be second, third, and forth.

Side: I disagree
1 point

This is not about competition, it's about trying to make new comers stay, and not disappear after a week.

And of course about respectful debates rather than mud throwing.

Side: I agree
1 point

I don't see any particular need to coddle others, especially where I regard them as idiots whose presence I don't value. I don't see it as "aiming higher" to tolerate inferior reasoning, nor even as particularly uncivil. Not that I think anyone is entitled to civility from anyone else in the first place. If someone else is too sensitive for their own good, then I don't see how that's anyone else's problem. Let them keep running away from every person who doesn't hold their hand, or let them learn through experience to not take everything strangers on the internet say so seriously; it's all the same to me and not my responsibility at any rate.

Side: I disagree
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This particular debate site IS very welcoming, IMHO. Since the censorhip and moderation and rule-enforcement by the site's head honcho is pretty much non-existent.

This site is FAR more lax on rules than others. It has practically No TOA (terms of agreement) contract as do the others, such as DDO and Historum.com and History.Org. (all of which I was a member on, and one of which I moderated the Science Forum.)

As far as ridiculing and insulting some of the posts, well, that happens only because so many of them Deserve to be ridiculed. People for example, who think a Bronze Age collection of Hebrew Myths and Fables is in any way remotely close to being a science book.

LOL

SS

Side: I disagree
2 points

Would you go to a mall, find where they keep their Santa, go there and shout out loud to all the little kiddies, "There is no freaking Santa!!! He isn't real!!! Pull his beard and you'll see! Your parents buy you all the presents! Search for them when you get home! Stop believing in a fantasy!"

Everybody has shit they must deal with. Let them enjoy their life anyway they see fit. Hell, life is too short to be worrying about what other people think. The time is better spent dealing with your own shit ;)

Side: I disagree
1 point

But... belittling others is how they deal with their own shit. Geez Jolie, grow a heart. Let them enjoy their life and all that sentimental rot. ;)

Side: I disagree
FromWithin(8241) Disputed
1 point

The site bigot once again shows his intolernce for diversity of thought. WHAT A TOTAL FOOL YOU ARE!

Have you, the site narcissist, ever written a post that did not include bragging yourself up?

Normally you tell us all how you are a veteran, or how you are so intelligent, and this time how you headed up some Science forum.

I only post to you when I get such a laugh at your dysfunctional words. Have you ever written a post that did not ridicule Christians? Why any thinking person would waste time bantering words with you is mind boggling.

I will not be replying to whatever lame words you spew in response.

Side: I agree
SlapShot(2608) Clarified
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Actually in my last post I did not engage in bragging or Narcissism at all. I did not mention my military service, and the fact I DID moderate for a bit on DDO is also not a brag, but a simple point of fact. To be sure, I do not consider being a mod on an internet debate site anything to brag about. I have also written many posts that did not ridicule Christians. And you are welcome to check my Waterfall to see this yourself.

I also highly doubt you can find more than one other person here who agrees with you that I am a fool, as you claim.

Other than that, thanks for another fair and objective and knowledgeable post.

NOT!

LOL

SS

Side: I agree
1 point

I'm an atheist but honestly .. Atheism is just as ridiculous as any religion. We don't have proof of anything, not even the big bang theory or even the theory that there is nothing after life.

I think you should stop a second and ask yourself how much certainty your own religious perception has before ridiculing others with such an arrogant attitude.

Side: I agree
1 point

I consider atheism as a religion ;)

Side: I agree
Jace(5222) Disputed
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You defend your claim by observing that we cannot prove anything about atheism. I will set aside for the moment your conflation of atheism with science and other extra-atheistic beliefs, because my interest is in your larger claim. Proof bears an apparent relation to the relative ridiculousness you ascribe to belief, which suggests that to you what is ridiculous is that which is irrational or unreasonable. Yet I do not see that it follows that a lack of certainty in knowledge renders the holding of a belief unreasonable.

For instance, I would not think it unreasonable if Jordan disbelieves in unicorns but believes in apples because while they cannot be certain on either point they have some cause to consider both more likely true than not on the basis of available information and cognitive capacities. I suspect that most people would agree with me on this, if for no other reason than that construing both of these as unreasonable leaves us with a very meaningless word indeed (i.e. what use is the concept of reasonableness to us if we call everything unreasonable simply because our knowledge can never be certain). What is reasonable is not the same as what is known with certainty.

On the basis of the information and faculties afforded to us, atheism is not nearly so ridiculous as any religion. This follows from the rather simple reason that it has fewer premises to defend. It's position is he mere negation of a general concept: god. A religion, by contrast, expresses not only a positive belief in a god (or gods) but also numerous additional beliefs about that god (or gods).

Further, upon historical reflection we have some grounds to consider all religions as being invented by people and this itself suggests the concept of god too may be of human origin. Should something beyond our conception exist to which we might ascribe our concept of god, that ascription could be reliably predicted to fall short enough of capturing its object as to make it an indefensible ascription. This is, of course, not an especially strong case but when it is compared against the numerous and entirely baseless assumptions of any religion it is sufficient to satisfy a standard of reason. Just as it would be in the case of unicorns or leprechauns.

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And all that aside, an atheist who assumes their belief in full cognizance that they cannot prove it is fair in ridiculing a theist who assumes their belief without such cognizance.

Side: I disagree
Jace(5222) Disputed
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I agree that some posts are just asking for ridicule. Posts, for example, which assert that welcoming forums are created by a relative absence of moderation. Because the end and function of moderation and rules is definitely to create hostile environments.

(LOL, I guess.)

Side: I disagree